Help!!! My Husband Can't Satisfy Me

Just recently i was engaged in a conversation with a client (name withheld), sex was brought up and she complained bitterly about her husband's inability to last long. She further went on to confide in that he hardly satisfies her; In her own words; "He no dey last at all, my husband no dey satisfy me, he go just release under one minute before i come sef, wetin I go do now'?.

Longer sex can lead to increased intimacy, improved communication, and a healthier relationship with stronger emotional bonds.

I know so many couples are going through this serious issue that has threatened so many relationships, Just about every man, regardless of size, race, relationship status, or even frequency of sex, wants to last longer in bed.
Longer-lasting sex typically results in more orgasms and generally more sexual satisfaction for both partners. So how do you do it? And so for the sake of all the unsatisfied and bored during sex women, I will be discussing "five (5) tips to Have Longer-Lasting Sex and Satisfy Your Partner"!

Tip 1:More foreplay:

 A slow build-up of stimulation will allow you to last longer. And that starts with foreplay. By starting with various forms of foreplay, your allowing your penis to adapt to a slow increase in stimulation, so when it’s time for intercourse, your penis is going from 45 to 60, not from zero to 60.

Tip 2: Start / Stop Method:
Most men know this one without having to read about.  You get close to having orgasm and you stop to recover. The mistake the most men make, however, is that they wait until they’re almost to ejaculation before stopping intercourse. The problem is that the closer you are to orgasm when you stop, the smaller the amount of stimulation needed upon starting again to orgasm.  So, the key is to stop, then start in a planned way. You’ll probably find that, with each start/stop cycle, you’ll spend less time in the “stop” period and more time in the “start” period.

Tip 3: Squeeze Technique:

From a pleasure point of view, this is our least favorite. However, it is very effective. And it’s exactly as the name implies. As you get closer to orgasm, have your partner squeeze your penis along the shaft until your desire to ejaculate goes away.

Tip 4: Sex Positions: 

Certain positions can help men delay orgasm. Try positions that either reduce penetration depth or apply more pressure on the top side of the penis. Full penetration maximizes stimulation while stimulation to the underside, especially the frenulum, typically drives men to ejaculation faster than stimulation.
Positions which make your stomach, thighs and groin muscles tense have a particular way of making guys ejaculate sooner.


    The missionary position.
    Doggy style – sorry, I know it’s awesome.
    Most standing positions.

Do more of

    The cowgirl – you lying down with her sitting on top.
    The reverse cowgirl – her on top facing away from you.
    spoons – her lying on the side and you behind her.

Tip 5:Don’t stop just because you had an orgasm:

Sex doesn’t end the second you ejaculate. Be a good lover and turn your attention to her with your hands, give her oral sex or whatever she likes. You might even recover in time for the second round while she’s getting even more aroused, increasing the chances of the holy grail of coming at the same time

This five tips are enough to keep your man very active for up to 20 minutes, making your sexual life awesome. #wink
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