Relationship or Wasting time?  (A Must Read For Singles)

This is a beautiful piece on relationship that would really guide you in ascertaining if your present relationship is worth it or not...

So many youths think they are in a relationship but in actual fact they aren't.

You need to be in a relationship for the right reasons, you have to feel it deep within you that it is for real..

It  is  so sad  that a lot  of  people  are  in a  relationship  for the wrong  reasons;
Some  are in a relationship because they are trying to get rid of loneliness so they need ANYBODY to just be with,

Some are in a relationship for Fun not minding the fact that it might not be just fun for the other partner, 

While some are in a relationship because of peer pressure, they were pressurized to be in it by friends or they chose to be in a relationship because they are surrounded by friends who are already in a relationship, so they find a partner because they want to feel among and not because they are ready for a relationship.

But all these are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship

Now how do you know if the relationship you are currently in isn't just a waste of time??

Read the piece below to determine that fact and then retrace your steps for the sake of your happiness...

Read Below:

 Every friendship should have a purpose and every relationship should have a Focus.

 The focus of every relationship should be MARRIAGE.

 You have no business being in  a relationship with someone if you know you  are not going to marry the person.

 You need to have the right focus why you  want  to  be  in a relationship with someone, and the focus should be because you want to build a home with that person, you want to connect with the person and create a bond.

 I  mostly tell ladies, when a guy  or  a  man come  into  your  life, there  are  two things  you  should find  out  from  him;
Whether he  has  a plan  for  your  life or  he  wants  to  Play  With  Your  Life.鷺

 This  man  or guy  who  claim  to be  in  love  with  you,  Does  he  want to  make  an honorable Woman out  of  you, to  be his  wife  and  the mother  of  his children? If it is a sincere Yes, then you are on the right track.

 If you are in a relationship with someone and the train is just moving endlessly, then it is time for  both  of you to stop and define that relationship.

 Have you ever met his or her family and how do they treat you?

 How does he or she react when you bring up the topic of "Future Plans, Spending your lives together"? Because trust me, if whenever you bring it up and he or she diverts the topic or becomes too agreeable without even listening, then there is a problem.

 Is the relationship focused on purity  and  cleanliness  before  God? Is there a Godly  boundary around that relationship and do you two know  your  limits?

 Your relationship should add the affinity towards Godliness and not personal interest.


Composed By Mimi Doris & Stella Martins
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