Professional dancer, Kafayat Oluwatoyin Shafau, simply known as Kaffy has opened up on her failed marriage while officially confirming the breakup.
Narrating her marriage experience, the 42-year-old dancer confirmed separation from Joseph Ameh, a music director and drummer, with whom they had two kids together.
She made this known in a post via her official Instagram page on Tuesday, 11th January.
The mother of two spoke on challenges and benefits of marriage while noting that she took a chance breaking off with her husband.
In her words;
“I have always wanted to see my ex be the best version of himself and even breaking up the marriage was also to see that we both grew into what we really are supposed to be.
Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies driving towards a place that God wants us to be and mine really did not work out that way.
“Rather than looking at somebody as a problem, you could be the problem of that person. Being an enabler of someone not being able to do what they are supposed to do can also be that you are not supposed to be in that space.
“So, there was a lot to learn and there is still a lot more to learn. I want to express that and motivate you to understand that life is not all about reaction to the world; it is not about reacting to what want you to say or what the world wants to hear; what the world wants you to be or what the world wants you to wear; what the world wants you to look like or get married”.
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